Friendship is such a weird thing isn’t it? We take another human, and for whatever reason, we decide “Yes, I pick you”! Friendships make us who we are and some build us up and others tear us down. However, sometimes it can be hard to identify bad friendships and when someone isn’t good for us. Just like a romantic relationship a friendship needs the co-operation of two people to work. There needs to be a balance of give and take, and when this isn’t balanced problems most likely arise.
I think the most important thing in life is to surround yourself with people you can trust and with people who make you happy and bring out the best you. If a friendship doesn’t do this for you, and brings you down rather than up, it is not a friendship you should be in. It doesn’t mean that they are a bad person or that you are but that you are better off not being friends. A friendship shouldn’t be forced. Most good friendships are so natural that you don’t have to think “Am I being a good friend?” or “Are they being a good friend to me?” because you know what the answer is!
Good friendships are so important and not that easy to come by so lets appreciate them!
Heres to the friends who are always there even if you haven’t talked in a while.
Heres to the friends who pull you back up when you may be a bit distant from the world.
Heres to the friends who will do you a favour, but don’t automatically expect something in return.
Heres to the friends who will tell you when you are wrong,
And to the friends who will apologise when they’ve done something wrong.
Heres to the friends who want to hang out to talk to you and reminisce , and not just to drink and have a good time.
Heres to the friends who go through a heartbreak with you and you with them.
Heres to the friends who stick up for you no matter what.
Heres to the friends who include you and always make you feel wanted.
Heres to the friends who make you laugh and smile when its the last thing you want to do,
And heres to the friends you know will be there forever because they are just too great to let go!
“Surround yourself with people that reflect who you want to be and how you want to feel, energies are contagious”
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